V1olin's new life without wife

[ImprovedRomeo]

EDIT: misunderstood about the new relationship until I posted and read Gnosis response above.

Goodluck signing the papers tomorrow...and no need to say anything to her. You owe her nothing, this is what she wanted and you're giving it to her. That's all there's to it. She doesn't deserve to know your feelings- though I'm sure she knows but don't give her the satisfaction. Let her keep wondering, no emotions (good, bad etc) tomorrow- it's like dropping the laundry off, you go in, do your stuff and get out. If she acts remorseful don't give her a shoulder to cry on, don't even give her a chance to talk/explain etc. She needs to feel the reality of it hitting hard. And please don't say a word about your future expecations or hopes of reconciling...she needs to feel this is over. It may take her weeks to feel and through that period you're going to stay dark.