V1, reframe those thoughts and think of it as signing your declaration of independence.

You choose your thoughts and the way you want to think.

You have been divorced for months now... all you're doing is closing off a formality. Remember... your W wants to be BFF's with you. All her efforts the past week has been to "show" you that the two of you can work as that.

As for your guilt about your GF... that's to be expected... you rushed into a new R without experimenting and taking it easy. You're supposed to go out and enjoy your life as a single, uncommitted man... not get attached to the first woman that comes along. That's a recipe for disaster and they call it a "rebound" relationship.

Get that PMA up. Move on with your life. That piece of paper takes care of your financial problems... sign it and get your stuff. IF your W wants more ... she will pursue you. You don't have to lift a finger.

M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT