Tonight she asks me to start paying all of the mortgage on our house. "This will really help me. It's alot for me to cover the condo and 1/2 of the mortgage".

WEll...sorry, sweetie. YOU decided to move out and get a condo without bringing me into the equation. You figure it out. You are legally obligated to 1/2 of this mortgage. You'll get 1/2 of the proceeds once it sells and you've got full legal access to it. I don't have access to your condo....why should I help you pay for it?

Time for tough love. Live with your decision.


M 52 W 37
Child: Hers: 2 9/11 Mine: 2 22/9


Bomb: April 2014