She was living with her parents, not on her own. When we were in our last counseling session I asked her if she had a condo. She said, "no." I told her that I needed to know what her plans were because my plans depend on hers. I was prepared to support a joint marital residence in New England and to live more austerely in the Washington, DC area.
So...she lied about the condo. She has moved forward and established a residence for herself and our son independent of me. Having her move to NE with our son was a joint plan but she was to live with her parents. I thought WE were going to get a place where I could come home to on weekends. I had talked to her about that on a number of occassions but got no firm "yes or no"...just a 'I'm taking it one day at a time.' 'I don't have a plan'...well, Bullsh#$t. She had a plan and she put it into play and has appeased me alll along so I would not stand in her way with re: to taking our son to NE to live. Now that his school is over and she's got him in NE I would bet money that she will stop our marital counseling.
