Hi Talia:
Hang in there. I am in very much your same situation, and I will be getting D papers next week. Not looking forward to it, because it is also something the I do NOT want. But I am beginning to feel that W is lost to me for good. I cannot hold her here if she does not want to be here. It is very sad, but it is also reality, I fear.

Just wanted to tell you that the light will shine brightly once again for you. Have faith in yourself, and look forward to better times ahead.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012