Hi Talia: Hang in there. I am in very much your same situation, and I will be getting D papers next week. Not looking forward to it, because it is also something the I do NOT want. But I am beginning to feel that W is lost to me for good. I cannot hold her here if she does not want to be here. It is very sad, but it is also reality, I fear.
Just wanted to tell you that the light will shine brightly once again for you. Have faith in yourself, and look forward to better times ahead.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012