I posted this in the alt to someone else... may help you, too...
I, better than anyone, can tell you this... You will have your own timeline in letting your H go. No one, or nothing, can rush it. When you do, he will either draw closer, lash out, or push farther away... And, when that day comes, you will truly have your choice. It is incredibly freeing. And, I chose to to continue to let him go. (Funny, after over TWO years of DB'ing....) Good Luck, my friend.
I'm here for you.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
