Karen,

I think your lists are better than mine, so I'm going to print yours to keep! They are great. I'd have to ditto them for my sitch as well.

I wonder if crying and being needy really works for anybody. I don't think that it does. But reacting that way is human nature. Of course, so is sin and we have to battle that, right?? So the battle is on and we will win.

Remember where to focus your anger - satan. He wants to destroy your M. But unless you allow it, he can't. He doesn't have that power. He is limited where God isn't.

We're going to make it, Karen, and our marriages will be better. We are both married to men who love us. And we are pretty darn wonderful ourselves!

Take care and thanks for giving me the homework!

Loved One