His MLC and I don't know what to do anymore

[DiamondGirl]

JMO, it sounds like he wants things to stay as is, with the assurance that you won't change or move farther into ending the marriage.

If he was truly committed to the M, he wouldn't insist on the distance. Isn't there a town or such halfway between the two points so there's a compromise?I wonder if you found the "perfect" solution what his resistance to your living together would turn out to be?

I think you are coming across very clearly and he just wants to keep things as they are, but doesn't want to jeopardize losing you for good. So he's mind playing to convince you that *you're* the irrational one...

Again, JMHO...