Oh my SCH....

So what would actually change from the way it is now if you went along with his plan?

You would still live apart
You would still be a single parent

What would be his responsibilities?
How and when would he be part of the family?

For him it would be like dating....he would see you when it would suit him.

If you would be considering this, the question would be if your R could progress into living together within some reasonable amount of time. He can't be thinking that this would be a permanent arrangement.

I don't know, your situation seems very complicated...what are your thoughts?


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO