She then continued to tell me that she really wants a D and she thinks we should proceed.
This is your cue to give Mrs. F what she wants. Say "You know, Mrs. F, I have decided that you are correct. We should not be married a minute longer. Tomorrow I will retain a L who will contact you about how I will go forward with executing this plan."
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what we would do with the arrangements of our son.
Nothing less than 50/50. Make sure you L communicates that and never backs off of it.
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I told her that I can't do much more of this limbo so if D is what she wants then she needs to proceed and make her decision.
No sir. Take the helm. YOU will PROCEED and YOU HAVE DECIDED and YOU will get the ball rolling.
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We also talked about moving into separate bedrooms.
You stay right where you are in the master bedroom. Let her take her jammies and slippers to another room. This is just the beginning of you helping her put on the BGP. If she doesn't want to share a room with you, then she can move.
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How do you keep fighting for someone who doesn't want to be with you???
Great question. Answer: You don't. You take the lead on giving her what she wants - D! And watch the crazy REALLY start. She'll be nine kinds of p!ssed at you "What do you mean YOU are divorcing ME????" And that is your stage to demonstrate IN CONTROL, CONFIDENT, STRONG Fightingforher who can protect his family, make the calls and call the meeting to order.
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