I also posted my own status update on facebook. A very generic comment about how some women need to stay out of other people's relationships and find guys who aren't already married.
H lost it because, according to him, he didn't need any harrassment from my family. I told him that #1, they won't harrass him because they'll talk to me if they have questions, and #2, why should I worry about reactions to my post when he was the one who made the decision to have an affair before our marriage was through?
And his sister "liked" my comment. I know he is ticked at her now. I didn't mean for that to happen because I knew his sister was trying to stay neutral, but she kinda jumped in without me knowing she would. Feels good to have her backing me up though.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread