Hey wii, so I was pondering the excerpt you posted a couple of days ago about how a person isn't whole if they need the other to make them happy. So I can see how that applies to my stbxw but it could apply to me too (and others here). Why are we fixated on having our WAS come back?

Anyway, just a detour there. Hope you feel better soon. It sucks being sick for this long while relying solely on yourself. I have to get my wisdom teeth pulled out but I'm delaying it because I don't want to be out of commission for days and I don't want stbx to bring me to the oral surgeon.

How are your kids doing? Are they spending more time with mom since you're sick?

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again