Hi nlt and Mila

Has been crazy busy and have just have not had the desire to come on here much this weekend. Thankyou for the encouraging words but I am realizing that H's behavior is really not anything new...it seems that he does not have good coping skills when handling life's transitions and he had an A when he went thru his last life transition...granted, it didn't last and he came back, but this one is different.

I have to think about the possibility that this will happen again down the road when he goes through his next one whether he is with me or someone else.

Do I still want to stand. Yes...but I really need to look at the reasons why I am standing and decide if they are good reasons.

I will get caught up later on you guys! Hope everyone had a good weekend!!!


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing