Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Here's what I sent to her "Go ahead and keep her on the 4th of Jul then. I'm also good with not splitting up the weekends if you want to rework the schedule.
 
Just so you know this is how she is when I drop her off at school- and Sandra can confirm it. Even at home where she may not cry but she'll ask and do stuff that shows her emotional pain. What I have found to work for me is to listen, understand and comfort her- distracting her when she's feeling hurt no longer works and probably makes her feel worse."

Had a lazy weekend since it was too hot to go outside. I decided to have a backyard campout with DD. Went to the storage to get the tent out of the trailer and it looked sad sitting there what it meant and all the places we went with it as well as how happy we were when we bought it less than a year ago.

Anyway, set the tent up in the b.yard threw some hot dogs on the grill and made a marshmallow dessert. Not bad but didn't come close to real camping and DD won't go without mommy when I suggested we went

Feels like such a waste of life for everyone to not even be able to do fun stuff, take vacations etc. How's this better? Can someone please explain this to me? DD's hurting, I'm hurting even financially, we aren't enjoying life like we used to...better yet can someone explain this to STBXW?