Hopeful2 and Whatisis, I had to sit back and chuckle over your comments about the men in our county. Go for the "M" men and not the "A" men. At least the "M" men can drive and have electric and running water in their homes. Romantic buggy rides can happen w/them as well, but w/better benefits.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
