I grinned and asked if I could have anything. I know I set myself up for a fall here, but I still had to ask.
NO, you did not "have" to ask! That is a huge turn-off to a WAW. Do you want to turn her off? Just keep thinking you "have" to do it and it will continue to push her away! God, you men are something else. You just HAD to ask. You knew the answer and yet you went there nevertheless.
The more despart you act and talk....the more it will leave her feeling cold. So...think about what you just have to do or say.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
