Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I am doing better than last week. I am just keeping my mind off the situation and focusing on the positives in my life. The kids came home from ex's on Sunday and my youngest daughter stated that OW's son is staying away from her. That is a blessing.
Ex dropped off the kids Sunday afternoon and by 5p.m. he was texting my oldest daughter about coming over to the house to pick them up for dinner that night. He has no boundaries regarding my time with the kids. Fortunately we had just eaten and my oldest daughter had homework to do.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Exactly, I am so glad I went full force on the incident between my daughter and OW's son. It scared ex and OW to death. Not so much that they care about my daughter, but they were afraid of what other's would think of them (superficiality). It is all about how they look on the outside instead of the real truth.
Ex is getting the message from me to leave me alone. I am again dark. He would love to have me available to him to be able to vent his garbage.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Ok so this was weird. He was suppose to have the kids Wed and Thursday. He drops the girls off on Wed night and tells them he will be (you guessed it) on vacation again for 3 weeks in New York. No notice to me at all. No consideration of me at all for my schedule.
It is for the best that the kids are with me since he is so out in left field, but it just gets to me how he thinks he can just come and go like he pleases without any thought about what this means for me.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
ah yes... he is going backwards again T. You know the wonderful Roller Coaster. he HAS to go back to SINGLEman mindset. It is the EASIEST place to be. No responsibility land.... and he probably justifies it because he "gave you your child support."
The backwards wonderful thinking! (this is the life that I live with my x)
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
