Haven't posted to you in ages...sorry. I don't post a whole lot anymore but I read threads everyday. You have been doing so well! I envy you! Go girl!!! lol
Hey I found an incredibly helpful book called "If this is love, why do I feel so insecure?" by Carl G. Hindy, Ph. D., J. Conrad Schwartz, Ph. D. and Archie Brodsky. I identify with it sooo much and it's a really useful tool. I got it from Amazon.com for a couple bucks.
You keep hanging in there...you really are doing great! Take care, Debi
