Well, I got served today. In front of my daughter too. My wife came over with my son and told the kids about the divorce. My kids are both six (twins). My daughter cried a bit and my son didn't seem to comprehend (or want to) the reality of it. He said he did, but in the next breath asked to play the Wii. I walked them out to her car and he immediately put his headphones on.
I don't know what to do. I'm feeling so down about it all and I'm getting the feeling that there's really nothing I can do to stop this. She's hell-bent and didn't even get upset when telling the kids. I've never seen her so cold in my life.