I feel like i need to contact WAW

[knightinneed]

Still no update on the D papers from wife. However, some really important observations regarding my Daughter 1.

Currently right now myself and WAW have visitation with our DD1 through my WAW's wife and My Sister, also there is a foster Mother involved in this.

My Sister or WAW's boss pickup DD1 from Foster mom and then bring her back to each of our respective residences to spend time. My DD1 I feel is having a very tough time of this because whenever my Sister picks up DD1 she is so SAD/Depressed because she had to Leave her MOM.

Then When DD1 has to leave from my visit, she is So depressed/SAD leaving me, crying and reaching out. I would probably imagine that DD1 is getting Attached to Foster Mom and likely is also sad when leaving her.


There has to be some sort of solution to prevent this torture of being bounced around to 4 diffrent people. My Sister still hasn't heard from CPS as our worker is not returning calls. The Plan moving forward is that DD1 will stay with my sister until we complete our classes.

I have made calls to the CPS worker, and she has not returned them either which is horrible.

I am just wondering how this can be good for my daughter to be attached/pulled away from so many adults/caregivers it really sickens me to see her cry and get sad. My sister is very willing to let WAW come to her house for visits just to cut some of the people out of the mix such as foster mom, WAW's boss etc...


I doubt WAW will go for this as finally I guess I agree with the bouncing around thing. She wanted DD in foster care for this very reason, but it is making a bit of sense, tho I know it is bad for a child to be there.


She still hasnt served Divorce Papers, and well I am wondering if some sort of mediation is possible, because the cost of a FULL CUSTODY divorce trial is going to bankrupt us both practically.

If any one has any comments or advice or can point things out here to me please do, as these new observations regarding my daughter are really hurting me.


Me 36
WAW 29
DD1 14 months

Together 2 1/2 years
Married 1 year