Ok. So the other thing I'm worried about is on Thursday I told him about the dating thing; then Friday he tells me he has no desire to work on the marriage but is interested in the dating thing.
I took the dating thing meant "sex" to him? the only reason I offered to date was so we could work on our marriage. Seeing how that's not what he's interested in doing, I took the dating thing off the table.
He dropped off our D today and acted like nothing (although he doesn't look very good) so I acted like nothing too although I'm dressed nice/hair done you name it.
I'm worried that I've made him believe that I have given up too. I will not be contacting him at all and i will not be initiating divorce. I've always been the one in control in our relationship - I figure if that's truly what he wants he will take the steps to put it in motion.
Someone - please offer some insight. I'm so confused!!!!!
