OIN, I'm going thru the same situation. Month # 22 and counting. It was just recently my wife started to lean on me while watching tv. It's a loooooong process. Our sex life isn't that bad as yours (1-2 times a week from 0). I remember 5 months back I touched her breath and she blasted in flames. Now I can touch her and she say nothing. Make love, try to reconnect.
Did you W ever threaten to move out the house or actually move out the house?
Today when I walked in the room for the first time after W came home from work, there was scent I could not figure out where it was coming from. I made a comment to my W about it. She said she was not sure where it was coming from either and did not smell it herself. While laying net to her in bed, I said "excuse me for a moment" I slightly leaned toward her and attempted to smell her hair (I know but that's I thought it was coming from) she jumped back as if I was attempting to bite her head off and had the dirtiest look on her face. Kills me because I know if it were anyone else she would not had reacted in such a way.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
