Understood. To answer the question, yes she is very well capable of locking the door herself, there were times in the past where so would only lock one hatch and the door would pop open. On the nights I have work she handles the task very well. I do it more because I like to say bye just before she walks out the door, it is something she use to always do for me and no longer does obviously (walk me to the door with lunch in hand, hug and kiss me before I left). So I will stop.
While W was at work I decided to put up the new shelves I purchased for the living room wall. While I was putting the shelves up W came home from work, she fooled with the dog for a little bit then went upstairs where she remained as I finished putting the new shelves up. A little while later I went upstairs we had a little conversation, I went back down stairs, W eventually came down herself.
On the shelves were two framed pictures of her grandmother that had been on the shelves I took down. These pictures had been displayed in our living room since day one. W took the pictures off the new shelves. I asked as to why she took them down (not those exact words but in a very kind manner) W just shrugged her shoulders. I said nothing. W took the pictures upstairs and placed them on her nightstand.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10