^$#)&* Puter kicked me off & I lost my post!! (It's just not the same having to re-write)
AK gal- I know that I need to go out more with my friends w/o him and look good.
I think that he started dressing down around me b/c I was wearing jeans all the time b/c of the not having more dress pants issue. I also was feeling self-conscious about wearing skirts, but now I have lost weight, so I can wear them again and feel seXy.
++ On TDay eve when we went out, h was looking in his closet and said, "what should I wear?" I said, "are you thinking out loud or asking my opinion?" He said both so I helped him pick out an outfit! He wore dockers and a fake suede shirt that I bought him. Nice! I wore my *new* Express low rise slacks and a hot red top and high heeled black boots. (I didn't buy the chadwick's stuff b/c of $).
The other night when he went out with the guys he did not get totally dressed up, so it is not EVERY time.
I think I just need to get over this.
*The thing is that most of our issues are centered around control-me trying to control him and his resistance to it. If I could just give that up!!! How do I do that?? Why do I have to manipulate all situations?? Sheesh!
