talked to her physician and my C about her and they said that if it is depression, she will not find anything attractive. In fact, the OM was like a shot of adrenaline that made her "feel" something that wasn't negative. I think sandi explained to me what happened with her and it's similar. It's like she's just numb.
So which is it? Women hate boredom. Get her to pursue you, get her out of numb, make her feelings towards you positive. What can you do to help her change her feelings? Be sensous - involve all the senses. Shake things up.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
