Need a Plan for My Marriage

[LSG]

DLS,

You are right she has made me the bad guy to make her feel good about her decision to be with the OM. I do not want anyone at the moment. I am just ready to be in a R. I want to take care of me and the kids. I wish she was part of my life, but I know that is probably not going to happen.

She may eventually come to understand what happened, but by then, it will not matter because I hope I will be moved on. I don't think that she will ever try to come back to me from past boyfriends and her attitude towards them. Too bad it takes so long for this to happen. I am sure that the OM is a total scum bag, but he is so cool with the attitude for now. His W describes him as not a real man. To his W, he is a total let down, and it took a while for his true self to show. It will be the same with my wife I am sure.

Oh well, not much I can do about it.