She may be evil to you because her mind has made you evil to maintain itself. Be like Geronimo and find some new ladies who like to spend time with you. After the divorce if you want to wait.
What is going to happen is your wife will eventually have to come to grips with her choices. She will either continue on the same course and have transformed herself into someone who you won't like anyway, or she will unravel after analyzing the person she has become and may apologize or attempt to come back to you. It takes years for this to happen.
