One question for everyone. When the OW starts doing things against the LBW does the H verbally support the wife or keep quiet?
In my case, I do not think my H would actually speak up for me, BUT I do know he would feel it. So, over time he would stop listening to OW's opinions of me. Does this make sense? I believe this b/c it happened many years ago with his mother. She was all sweet and kind to my face but would fill H with horrible ideas about me. Like...I was a golddigger. (BTW at the time, I had more $, more assets, less debt than H). He listened to her and didn't defend me only to avoid the conflict with her. But he didn't HEAR her.
Is your H a conflict-avoider?
BTW I would thank him for giving you the heads-up! It's too bad she's such a looney tune!
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