"I actually stated that I would NOT bring them into the middle of this situation."

You don't have to tell them.. just don't do it. Find a mentor to vent to. Your Mom and Dad are OK.. just don't want to put them off if you and her get back together. Find an outside party to vent to. Someone that does not have any "Emotion" about the situation.

"Never talke to the other sex about this".....why?"

Within the confines of DB.com.. or possibly a C.. it is ok. It opens up to many issues. You don't really want someone that is going to coddle you thru this. Lets just say I did it and it did not turn out well. Keep the issues close.. don't spread it around. Find a healthy way to vent.. and discuss. A mentor.. A C.. A DB coach. The less people in your life that you "involve" the easier things are when you start piecing.


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.