MF, just wanted to clarify that I am truly happy that you are able to face this divorce by making the best out of the situation. Like I said on my thread, you are "embracing" it- like how Flowmom was "embracing change!" unless I am misunderstanding. If I end up divorcing, I will follow your example and change my attitude! Thanks for the inspiration!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004