Ok got the bedtime adjusted! I started asking him when S fell asleep over there and he said between 7-8. So I said that he falls asleep between 7:30-8 over here. I said I think he needs a consistent bedtime going back and forth. WH said he agrees and let's talk about it more. He will drop him off at 8 this week and we can try it out. I don't know what there is to talk about! But I just said "sounds good- I will make my plans accordingly. I do want you to be able to see him more, but maybe you could adjust your schedule on Mon and Thurs although I know you are busy!"
Thanks again, WN for noticing this bedtime issue!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004