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ry talking to her in an adult, negotiating way. "I think we have misunderstandings because of the way we talk to each other. I will try not to have an attitude with you, if you will try not to have an attitude with me. To help us recognize those times when we might misunderstand, let's just ask nicely if the other person is mad before we assume there is an attitude problem. After all, our lives will be better if we try to get along.'


This is similar to the whole "same respect you would give a stranger talk" where my W said "I will do as I feel." One day this lasted. The very next day I said bye and she said nothing. It is very intermittent. She does say 'thank you' however. She does not say "your welcome" at all.

I will give this a try, do I just bring it up and wait for the next time she tells me I have an attitude?


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10