"Sure, go ahead and keep her on the 4th of Jul. Your proposed Jul schedule works for me.
I'm also good with not splitting up the weekends let me know how you want to rework the schedule. However, this is how she is when I drop her off at school and Sandra can confirm it. Even at home when she may not cry sometimes but she'll ask and do things that shows her pain. I listen, validate and comfort her- distracting her no longer works as you found out yesterday."
Business like and without talking about my feelings which she doesn't give a crap about anyway.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again