Not only is OW a bad influence on your son but your H is too as that is what your H chose.
I have no choice in this matter. none. LET IT GO. I have.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004