My daughter is picking up his CPAP machine to take to him (he is 80 miles away) this morning. Would it be wrong/stupid of me to send him a jar of peppered pickled okra that I can for him every year? Is this a friendly gesture, or an excuse?HELP


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011