Hey P,

I see--I think he'll give you the flat. He's already referring to it as your space! I think when you write up your agreement, if you just start with that confidently ("Piano will have full ownership over the flat at X street etc), I think he'll agree!


Originally Posted By: Piano
but have me at a safe enough distance (emotionally and physically)


Ha, that's what you want from him, too. No difference, except not the friend part. It's good that he's 1.5 hours away. He has bonded with the baby, it seems. He will make the drive out (or ask you to meet at a middle point maybe) but you will be safely away from HIM most of the time!!