Stablizing you first and that comes from the detachment process.
This is very HARD to do but must be done.
It allows you to begin your journey.
Keep in mind and don't get confused detachment doesn't mean you don't love them or that you are abandoning them it means you are creating a healthy environment for YOU to heal.
Whether you stand for your M is your choice.
I have just posted on my thread something on that very subject.
It may be hard for you to imagine this happening as a blessing but if you do this work that is the only thing I will bet the farm on for you...
That you will be in a much better place.
Welcome.
p.s. Hi Cat and Brook!
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
