W then just about to walk out the door and I ask "are you going to need the umbrella?"
Stop trying to be her servant. I keep reading examples of you doing that in your thread, and it's not working.
She's a grown up, and if she wants to go out in the rain without an umbrella, let her, and if she asks where the umbrella is, then tell her if you happen to know (don't even help look for it unless she asks).
Take all of that energy you are expending on her, and use some of it on yourself. I don't care if it is just something simple like taking your dog for a walk. Get out and do something for you when she is being like this. Give yourself a break from it.
Questions: when was the last time this woman complimented you? Name three things she has said she liked about you.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
