I emailed the sister and her husband at Easter just to say "Happy Easter." Trying to maintain some semblance of "normal" with the family. I actually stated that I would NOT bring them into the middle of this situation.

The only other e-mails have been re: our son's birthday gifts..."what does he want" etc. There have been NO conversations at all about the W or the R.

Her sister told her that she thought her actions were selfish. So, somehow I am responsible for her sister's opinion.....go figure.

"Never talke to the other sex about this".....why?


M 52 W 37
Child: Hers: 2 9/11 Mine: 2 22/9


Bomb: April 2014