Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

how do I break the cycle without being destructive to all my DB efforts? Trust that I hate going through this as much as you all cannot stand reading it. Take this morning for example...

I wake up and W is getting ready for work. W is sitting on the bed beside me...I was unsure but thought I heard rain so I ask "is it raining outside" W continues doing what she is doing and responds "uh huh" then gets up and walks away.

I fall back to sleep but once again wake up just as she is walking out the bedroom to head downstairs. usually I get up to see her out the door and lock the doors behind her. Mainly because she has trouble locking them herself.

I left the window open in the living room and water was splashing through the screen so I was attempting to close the window which was jammed and W asked with an attitude "did you put my keys back in my purse" I said "yes" and maybe had a little excitement in my tone 1. I was trying to close the window and 2. She watched me put the keys in her purse once I returned home last night so as a result she responds "Whats with the attitude"

W then just about to walk out the door and I ask "are you going to need the umbrella?" because I know where it is and I don't think she does but either way she said "huh?" and I repeated myself and she said "no"

Then W started to walk out the door and asked that I close all the door behind her, sure why not and as I was doing so I said "bye" and W gave a soft "bye" in response.

W ran to her car and after she got in I seen her scanning through her iPod, more than likely throwing on her WAS mix.