Exposed finally,,limbo land

[newmama]

for what it's worth, you didn't do permanent damage. You can still do what you planned originally (the post before). It is about being consistent from whatever change you do put into place.

I have to tell you that you shouldn't let her live in the basement while she thinks you will wait for her to come around and she can run hog wild until she decides she has had enough. She will lose respect for you which will cause her to lose desire for you.

You do need to give her the impression (and believe it yourself) that you won't be waiting forever. And now I will back away because you have some vets who are guiding you! I just had to give you my female perspective!