I have lived with the relationship for 14 years. I don't know what else to say. There are plenty of guys that she's had friendships with that were NEVER ANYTHING more then strictly that, NOT EA's , NOT PA's . JUST FRIENDS. I'm not asking anyone to believe it. But I LIVED IT and KNOW that's the reality.
I know a lady named boobzilla. She's got more guy friends than girlfriends. I don't know what they see in her; she's got ugly feet, always talking about problems in her marriage, can't handle her whiskey. But still they hang out, buy her drinks, text message her, post on her bookface.
Turned out when her husband finally moved out, she had done a few of them and started dating some of the others.
14 years of marriage : people grow apart, they stop doing it for each other, hormone levels change, same old, same old. Keep that in mind as you do what you got to do.
