Thanks Sage, oc, you can use it! But, you have to share what works and what doesn't and help me stick to the plan! This is very hard for me!!! karen have a good day, all!
It's top secret! jk. Go to My Home Scroll down-under Main Configurations click on the edit pencil where it says Personal... Go to change display name, change it, scroll down, submit. Your login name will remain the same.
I tried to be pleasant when h came home last night. He made a movement, but I wasn't sure if it was to snuggle or not, so i did, but briefly. this morn. i was pleasant. we always xoxoxo hi and good-bye. I think the more smiley I am when we see each other or say goodbye, the better. It rubs off.
Tonight I am going to the neuro. at 4:15. I'm actually going to get to go home in the daylight!!! I get to pick up doggie doo-doo and then walk the dogs. I've been neglecting them.
then i play vball 7-8:30. Haven't made plans with the h. we'll see what happens. I dont' think he is planning to go anywhere, but if so, I'll be ok with it. tomorrow we are meeting his friend & w for dinner. (yes, he DID plan it!), what else? don't know.
I MUST maintain! I must act as if with all of my might!!! eugghngggg! That's me flexing my muscles. If I don't...
I spoke to a ff about jealousy today b/c i noticed that she is really confident around her bf. It helped.
feeling some anxiety. I want to go out w/h the eve. before t-day but i'm wondering if he's going to want to go to the pub w/his friend...
I'm a buckeye, but honestly, could care less about football! Had to ask where the Badgers are!!
I'm doing pretty well. Neurologist put me on daily med's for ha's and gave me imitrex also. Ears and sinuses are fine!
Played vball last night & had a great time. Before I left I told h I would go to the store and get food to make jambalaya. When I got home he had MADE the jambalaya! He thought I asked him to go!! ?? I appreciated it a lot, but wasn't going to ask as I am trying NOT to ask him to do stuff. Well, maybe it is ok to ask him to do acts of service, but not words or expressive stuff. He was very tired as to be expected. He got home late from going out & drinking and has been working on an engine job. I have learned not to expect much from him on Thursdays but am acting just fine regardless. Maybe he will learn???
Tonight is din with friends. I plan on being a wonderfully charming woman this weekend!! and seXy too! but not pressuring...
I didn't get to see the sun yesterday or walk my dogs which bummed me out. But, the sun'll come out tomorrow!
Sounds like you are doing great. I'm so happy for you. Wish my H could cook. I kid him and tell him that he makes great seafood (Red Lobster), steaks (Longhorn's), mexican (mexican restautant), etc. He just laughs. He's real good about taking me out to eat if I ask! Guess that kinda makes up for his lack of culinary abilities.
Have a wonderful dinner and I know that you'll look "mahvalus darling!" Knock'em dead!
OH, this is his 2nd time to cook since we've been married!!! (aside from the grill) And, all you have to do is brown the meat and throw a box of stuff into water and boil.
Kinda funny, but I have been secretly wishing that he would cook din.!! and he says that he does cook too like yours- buys din at restaraunts!!
work is driving me NUTS today!!
It is still unseasonably warm for oh & I should get to pick up poop tomorrow-yay! ha ha... i'm cracking myself up. If it weren't for these graemlins , I don't know what i'd do!