Ummm... Something is truly wrong with him!!! How do you go from wanting to have a family with someone to not wanting them in your life at all! WTF!!!
Sounds like he has some serious issues he needs to work out! He is running away from something... Not just you, but his own self-conflicting issues! And none of this honey is because of you! He is going through his own personal mess, none of which is b/c of you. Let him go on his journey. Does he truly yhink he is going to be happy!!!!! What is going through his head!!!
I agree with NM and Gatsby... Make your points non negotiable! And take the control back into your hands! And yes! Start making every day from now on about you and your angel baby and forget him for now.
