So the consequence for continued contact with OM should be she moves out of the house or I move out and go dark? Do we still go to MC if either one of us moves out or I go dark?

She has no family locally and POSOM is unemployed but doesn't want to D his wife because POSOM wants to stay married for the children...how convenient!

M-43
FWW-42
T 20
M 16
DD10
DD8
EA: 1/10
Informal separation: 6/11/2010
Headed for D: 7/6/2010
Piecing? 9/10/10