About Cesar, since his wife filed and is asking for primary custody of the kids, I can only suspect an OW. Ah, people.
WH texted me. I didn't have my phone nearby so I didn't get it for a couple of hours; just got it now.
He wanted to "check in" to see how the baby and I are doing. He also said he got a coupon to Babies R Us and wanted to know if I needed anything.
Geez.
Um, hmm.
Anybody got ideas on where to go from here?
I could ignore it tomorrow. Seems a little harsh to an offer for the baby, tho.
I could write back "fine, thanks. if I think of anything i'll let you know." Might be good.
I could write back, "a**hole, why don't you ask ugly girl what i need?"
ok, that one was a joke.
I could write back. "Yes: hemorrhoid cream, lanolin for nipples, a supportive bra, and a crib."
another joke.
I'll probably go with #2.
I already know that his mom is going to try to stay at his apartment in a few weeks after the baby is born. I'm going to "save up" all my favors for that one in case he says no. It really is irritating that everyone else is accommodating family for the birth, and if he thinks he's going to be able to maintain his secret life and not have anyone stay in his big 2-bdrm mostly empty apartment, well then. . .
Oh also, SIL told me (still didn't correct her) that he wants to go on a camping trip from Friday-Sunday. Right over the weekend of my turning 40 weeks. I suppose I could ask for that too, for him to stay in town. But I kinda don't care if he's here or not. It just seems rude, though. Or like. . . like he's escaping the birth or something. Like he has a problem with this baby or something.
