still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

You do need to notice changes in him tho. Right? You were seeing change about a month ago? This was after you changed up the visitation? So, what if you changed it up some more?

Thanks for saying that WN, but it might have just been the shock of it all and now he is "handling" the change.


I wish I could find another story that is similar to mine where the H was with OW for over a year and then came back to the W.

Am I being cuckoo for thinking that it is unrealistic that much of anything other than me filing for D (at this point) is going to get that man to budge? SERIOUSLY?

I did just have a thought though. Since I am willing to file for D in 4 weeks, I could try some drastic changes in 4 weeks instead. On S' b-day I could have his clothes packed and the 2 pieces of furniture that he wants all ready to go. In the same week I could just say "I have a date on Thursday night. Is there any way you could keep S overnight or should I find a sitter?" I could even ask him for his keys to the house. Of course then I would need to bring up D within the next couple of weeks. Why am I waiting 4 weeks and not 2? I want to see what OW does. If I did it earlier, I would always second guess myself.

If baby is coming home so late, that he has to go immediately to bed or is falling asleep in the car, He should probably be home sooner. Just sayin'.

Yes...good point. We will need to discuss this schedule and reflect on how it is working for S. I would be willing to meet WH in the parking lot to pick up S if he brought him back earlier.