My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

UPDATE: I went to church with my kids this morning and when I got back, W was not home. I was pretty sure she met up with the OM but I didn't say much. I was just about to go to a national park with the kids and she came home. They wanted her to go too and I said, "You're invited if you want to come." So she came.

While we drove, she said, "When we get a divorce, can still I come with you guys on trips?" I laughed and said, "That's not happening; I can't do that. You have to choose between helping your family and hurting your family; between destroying your family and reconciling your family."

Later as we drove I was telling her about a female coworker of mine who offered to give us a plane ride. She said, "Is she single?" I said, "No." She said, "Shoot!" as if to say, "Oh, too bad, because otherwise you could hook up with her." I said sarcastically, "Oh, but being married doesn't matter, does it?" (I said this because the OM is married.) And I said, "And she has kids, but that doesn't matter either." (I said this because OM also has kids.)

When we got back home, I was planning on taking the kids out again and she was trying to figure out how she would handle a time conflict at her work and she said about her boss, "I already gave her my word." And I said, "So all of a sudden you want to be a person of your word." And she said, "Can you please hurry up and leave?" So we left again for awhile. Now she is sitting outside in deep thought.