still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Maybe starting door drop-offs is a good idea. I know your WH has to go to the bathroom a lot, but maybe that is a consequence for him. He's got to go to a gas station or something to relieve himself!

LMAO!! Yes he has a prostate problem!

I do like to look at other angles like I said! But like I also said, I truly am getting at the end of my rope--I will drop the whole damn thing in 4 weeks!
So my motivation is faaaaading.

Now let us truly be realistic here. If I suddenly start greeting WH at the stoop and exchanging S there as well as say "Hello. Good. See you next time." is that going to make him think "wow. I don't get my 14-25 minutes of newmama time each week anymore! I better dump OW!" No.

CG pointed out that he doesn't think of me as anything more than S' mom, despite my attempts to be sexy and independent and mysterious.

So truly I think Flowmom is right- she said something to the effect of it just doesn't look like anything I do or how I act will sway WH so I shouldn't stress about it anymore.