Hi Everyone - I changed my name from anned82 to BrownEyes - sorry if that is confusing. Anyway, I received a response from my husband regarding the account.
My email: "WH, I have decided to remove you from the joint billing account. In order to do this you must be present at the bank with me. I am available Saturday before noon, Monday or Tuesdsay at 4pm. Which day works best for you?"
His email: "As long as my paychecks are being transfered to that account I will not relinquish access to it. You can take control of it but I at least want to be able to see what's going on."
So fine, I don't think I should push the issue any further at this point because 1) his parents/me are making a decision later this week about how we are going to handle or approach his addiction 2) I'm worried he will stop putting his paycheck in that account and that would be really bad because I can't afford to live in this house without more contribution.
Should I even respond to the email? It just fing irrates me because he used that account to withdrawal $125 to get a hooker and gamble. Right, like I'm the irresponsible one.
